ITT: Pretend we are still writing in osu! OT

Aurelianus Augustus · ^

Brian OA wrote:

Well, of course you think that way. I wouldn't have made it a point if I didn't realize you believe you're being tame. Ultimately, I think your standards are far too low and would benefit from some adjustments, but yeah, it's your choice and thought in the end. I'm not going to force it on you or anything.

Good that you at least got that one right.

Brian OA wrote:

That's not what I meant. You say that I am to take you as an edgy asshole because that's supposedly what you are. In other words, you are completely fixed to this persona of yours, being a jerk is all you can do, and that I should treat you as such. Really, my only approaches, if I genuinely believed that, would be to either not associate with you anymore, or just compromise and roll with the punches. Tolerate it, basically.
Of course, I think that's bullshit.

No, I said that others take me as an edgy asshole, which has nothing to do with how I look at myself. That ties in with the whole "don't approach our convos from the angle of our small TS banters". The reason you look at me like you do lies mostly in your "one on one TS talks", which does NOT portray me the way I truly am, so your opinion of me is in turn very foggy at best. I'm definitely not edgy and definitely not an outright asshole to every single being, but am closer to it than your view of me, or at least the part you wrote in your post. If being an edgy asshole was (on a scale) -100 points and your opinion of me was +3300 points, just because I'm +30 (in the positive) doesn't mean I'm closer to you.

Brian OA wrote:

So you weren't messing around? What was your intent, then?

What? You didn't understand that part, or? I already stated it multiple times that I was fucking around from the first post in my typical fashion (considering that I rarely give above zero fucks), and that you only reacted like you did because you misunderstood the posts and actually took them seriously.
I was, of course, proven wrong, as you stated that you knew that my posts were jokes and that in turn showed just how strict your boundaries are in that regard, so I'm in turn left with one of two options.... either stop fucking around you altogether, or decide to disregard my affection towards you and not give a single fuck in the future, possibly resulting in us never speaking to each other again.

Brian OA · ^

Aurelianus Augustus wrote:

No, I said that others take me as an edgy asshole, which has nothing to do with how I look at myself. That ties in with the whole "don't approach our convos from the angle of our small TS banters". The reason you look at me like you do lies mostly in your "one on one TS talks", which does NOT portray me the way I truly am, so your opinion of me is in turn very foggy at best. I'm definitely not edgy and definitely not an outright asshole to every single being, but am closer to it than your view of me, or at least the part you wrote in your post. If being an edgy asshole was (on a scale) -100 points and your opinion of me was +3300 points, just because I'm +30 (in the positive) doesn't mean I'm closer to you.

I didn't mistake your intent because of my impression of you. Hell, I'm pretty sure I didn't mistake it at all. My point is I'm not going to let what others think of you or even what you think of yourself, if that's even reliably accurate, influence my impressions and actions. The fact is that you've pissed me off over something that I believe you're perfectly capable of controlling. Regardless of such opinions, I can't just go "aw shucks, that's classic Aurani for ya," and move on with my day this time around.

I was, of course, proven wrong, as you stated that you knew that my posts were jokes and that in turn showed just how strict your boundaries are in that regard, so I'm in turn left with one of two options.... either stop fucking around you altogether, or decide to disregard my affection towards you and not give a single fuck in the future, possibly resulting in us never speaking to each other again.

It's not that my boundaries are strict. It's that I'm busy as all hell and as I flip my phone open between tasks to give you at least some time of day, I get nothing but condescension from you.

Look, you had an intent and you failed, that's the gist of it. You can stop trying, get better at it, or just keep doing what you're doing. It's your call; your priorities; your choice. I'll get over it one or way or the other.

Aurelianus Augustus · ^

Yeah, I have no idea what kind of opinion you must have of me if you can't ignore my shit at all. I mean, if it bothers you to THAT extent, you always have the option of just ignoring my post altogether, since you just now said that you perfectly understood the context of my posts and even read the mood right (apparently). I'm at a serious loss here when it comes to your actions, since you just chose to argue with me instead of ignoring it and not giving a fuck. You ought to relax a bit, mate, especially since you pointed out how stressful your work was. I also have metric shittons of work, yet I never let that interfere with my private life or my online one.
If you have work to do, don't put it aside for random people you silly mutt, but instead make it your priority.

Zhepyr Valentine · ^

UnderminE wrote:

Zhepyr Valentine wrote:
I think I found this on 4chan.
▼Hidden text
http://puu.sh/mO0xm.jpg
the pic I posted? Yeah I also posted it there, it had that much of quality

I meant the picture in the spoiler.

For some reason I keep seeing Aurani's avatar as a male character.

Brian OA · ^

Because I care about you, you stupid idiot

Aurelianus Augustus · ^

Well shit, that beats my previous points, then.

In that case, I do need to be more sensitive around you. I guess I was the one who misunderstood you.

Pirtelö · ^

maaAAAAAAAAAn i love shinobu

B1rd · ^

Brian OA wrote:

B1rd wrote:
You're much too much of a fragile snowflake for the internet it seems Brian, If you can't even tolerate a very little bit of banter. Aurani is always joking around like that. If you're offended then the problem is with you not Aurani.
Keyword here is tolerate, B1rd. While it's an important value in certain situations, there's no need for it here. Tolerance in itself implies there's a genuine issue at hand, and I shouldn't have to shoulder that unless I'm dealing with someone lesser than me, which I doubt is the case.
Moreover, I'm not going to be one to pipe down in a situation where I clearly have a problem just to look cool. If that's your jam, that's fine, but that's not my priority here. I don't know if it's with me, him, or something in my daily life right now, but all I know is that I'm not willing to take this shit right now.

That's not the only definition of tolerate. Like I said, you're the only one with a problem here, you have a stick up your arse. If you can't handle the humor then leave, don't try and force people treat you with kid gloves.

Brian OA · ^

Even if I did have a stick up my butt, which I doubt is the case, it's my choice to say things as much as it is everyone else's to agree or disagree. I think that was a poor attempt at humor done in bad taste. Maybe you think differently and probably even thought that was funny. Maybe you think people are too prone to overreacting to innocuous jokes. Maybe you think that someone shouldn't have to change for someone else's sake. Maybe you think I should grin and bear it because otherwise there would be some kind of adversity.

Whatever the case, that's your opinion, you're entitled to it, I don't care much for it, and I'm not changing my stance on the matter. I'm also not leaving.

Pirtelö wrote:

maaAAAAAAAAAn i love shinobu

the vampire, the railgun, or the ninjas?

Pirtelö · ^

donut-loving loli vampire shinobu.

Brian OA · ^

Hika · ^

I return with a happy arrival, seeing Brian post a nice picture of his new pocky collection.
Delicious.
P.S. - how is everyone doing? Wish I were around here more but I've got work and life.

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UnderminE · ^

Brian OA wrote:

Because I care about you, you stupid idiot

now kiss

Pirtelö · ^

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you know, I really wanted to comment that, but the thought they might keep this discussion going makes me not want to write anything.

UnderminE · ^

Pirtelö wrote:

^
you know, I really wanted to comment that, but the thought they might keep this discussion going makes me not want to write anything.

that comment was posted to put an end to their discussion tbh

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