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Even though this topic shouldn't even be as controversial as it is right now as it should be common sense that cutting yourself is a no no.
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Even though this topic shouldn't even be as controversial as it is right now as it should be common sense that cutting yourself is a no no.
it sounds like you're a bit confused - they're not cutting you, but themselves. the same way as gay marriage is now legal, not mandatory, and trans people change their own gender, not yours.
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IppE wrote:Blah blah forum whatever I want to be entered by Aurani
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Here and now the controversy is with Granger thinking that cutting yourself can be considered justified.
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enet wrote:Even though this topic shouldn't even be as controversial as it is right now as it should be common sense that cutting yourself is a no no.
it sounds like you're a bit confused - they're not cutting you, but themselves. the same way as gay marriage is now legal, not mandatory, and trans people change their own gender, not yours.
Weren't you the one who preached about natural selection just the other day ago? Interesting how you now claim that everyone has the right to do what they want not even 2 days after trying to "lecture" me. Very interesting indeed.
Last edited by Aurelianus Augustus (2016-05-29 13:30:16)
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No, just no. There is no explaining it - harming any part of your body regardless of your thoughts is plain idiotic, but it doesn't mean you can't learn from it. That's why 90% of people who did it will in fact tell you that they regret what they've done, as they've learned that it was utterly pointless.
As for the chemicals released by your brain when you cut yourself - it's a poor substitute for merely finding something that calms you down. You can choose the easy way of ruining your hands for the rest of your life or the hard way of finding a way of escaping from that particular problem that you can't seem to face at the time.
Like I said at the start - there is no excuse for slitting your wrists no matter what you try to come up with.
According to my psych, the reget comes mostly from the scarring - the fact you've mutilated yourself and get judged for it and as reminder of your bad times forever. And people keep bringing it up. Asking what happened. Or worse, treating you like trash because of it.
She said, getting her patients to avoid the scarring is pirioty because thats what they will feel bad about in the long run because these things.
Oh yes, of course. But sometimes... actually often, lets not kid myself, its just that i cant get any drive to do anything, not even things i like or seemingly basic things like keeping myself fed. Biking makes me happy. My work does (even tru its pretty shitty). When the thoughts haunt me, i grab the rubberband to shoo them away. And then i can do other stuff, say going biking.
People dont actually want to cut or kill themselfes, they do it because they see no other options. Fuck you all that say "the easy way". Its not. Its the last way.
Life is like a box of chocolates.
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No, that's a problem with your mentality. If you're thinking that way then you need to go see a psychiatrist, no joke; seek help from others.
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Failure to find another method leads one to believe the current one is the best one. Just because you found a store full of rotten apples that is the only store in the entire district that has apples, it doesn't mean you should go on and buy them. Go and search the entire city if need be, the entire country, as there ought to be at least 20 other stores with perfectly fine apples.
That's why it's easy to hurt yourself.
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If you're thinking that way then you need to go see a psychiatrist,
OH GUESS WHAT? I ALREADY AM, WHAT A FUNNY COINDENCE ISNT IT
Bye tho, gotta go to a celebration.
Life is like a box of chocolates.
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cutting yourself makes you a literal pussy
but you can't blame people. we all need to release stress or just vent out our depression, one way or another
I don't justify self harm because it shows how fragile you are at things. It shows how enfeeble you are on things. But no one or nobody has the right to dictate ones self-worth just because he/she hurts him/herself to vent out shit
No one has the right to tell you how you want to vent out. Hell, if you want to, you can punch a wooden wall until it cracks open. But again, cutting yourself or anything that induces self harm just shows how weak you are. It just shows how incapable you are when you face your own demons.
Does self harm means blaming oneself? It depends, but I'll leave that one here
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it sounds like you're a bit confused - they're not cutting you, but themselves. the same way as gay marriage is now legal, not mandatory, and trans people change their own gender, not yours.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should!
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enet wrote:If you're thinking that way then you need to go see a psychiatrist,
OH GUESS WHAT? I ALREADY AM, WHAT A FUNNY COINDENCE ISNT IT
Bye tho, gotta go to a celebration.
If you're offended and hurt by what I say then you shouldn't be. Just think, to you, I'm just some random person from the internet so don't take what I say to heart. I don't mean to offend if that's what you thought.
Last edited by enet (2016-05-29 13:53:26)
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tupsu wrote:it sounds like you're a bit confused - they're not cutting you, but themselves. the same way as gay marriage is now legal, not mandatory, and trans people change their own gender, not yours.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should!
Preach, my nigga
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